If I may ask , what is your idea of an ideal body?, what would it be for you, slim and slightly curvy with the perfect glowing skin, thick and round, name it, I know you have a perfect description in your mind. Well let me bring you home a bit.
Firstly that question is right and wrong, wrong in the sense that no one has the right to speculate or dictate what one’s body shape should look like or be. Now right in the sense that, there is of course an ideal body and that body is yours and mine.
We all are the examples of an ideal body no one left behind and that is totally amazing.
There was a time I had self esteem issues particularly my body, I just didn’t like the way I looked , I felt I was too skinny, and this did a whole of damage to me. I had a whole endless wishlist of how my body should have looked like and nothing changed.
I battled with myself for so long and I lost. I realized I was not only ungrateful, i was loosing sight of the bundle of uniqueness that I was and misplacing my priorities. I had to take action. I dispelled every voice that said I didn’t look good enough, I took time to always not only appreciate my body but also myself.
I journeyed on Self- Love and I never regretted any of it.
Your body is perfect, just for you alone. You are beautiful in and out, you are all shades and shape of amazing. If anyone has anything contrary to say , that is their cup of tea.
Love yourself is more of actions than words.
Give your self treats, get quality products for your skin , exercise regularly, yeah do that, your body needs it, go for checkups regularly too, eat healthy meals, cut off anything that might be of harm later for you in life. Don’t put your life in danger because of what people would say.
Don’t do any of this for anyone but for you, don’t damage yourself for clout , it will only end in tears. Don’t be ashamed of your body, and never body shame another person, only people with low self esteem do that.
Set your priorities right too, there is more to you than your body, you have your personality to build, your career, family to love up on and grow, so many things that needs your attention. You’ve got to give it all you’ve got.
Tell yourself, I am amazing, I am beautiful, I am all shades of miracle waiting to happen.
Let your body inspire you, because if you don’t take care of yourself, who will?